Prolong Orgasm
How to Prolong Orgasm: Techniques For Giving Females Orgasms
Prolonging orgasm may sound difficult but actually it is more simple than you’d expect. The most important things are lots of practice and both people’s mindset. It helps a lot of create a place with a great atmosphere. Candles and oils may seem cliché, but they really help to get both partners in the mood for an experience.
There is just one rule for guys to get right during foreplay: use lubrication. If you feel that some of the shop bought lubes are not very erotic (Some honestly look more like medicines and have directions that will reduce you both to hysterics), then try using natural oils and butters.
The best technique is to stimulate areas that are very sensitive, but not necessarily ‘erogenous’ zones. Most women love it when you trace the outline of their spine with oiled hands. You can apply a lot of pressure here and it will feel really good. This also has the benefit that you can whisper things into her ear, kiss her neck or do some perineum/ anal play if she is aroused by that.
Most women can orgasm from clitoral stimulation, some are even able to have a squirting/ gushing orgasm from only clitoral play. What varies a lot from lady-to-lady is the way the clitoris should be stimulated to get the best results. Some women prefer direct stimulation of the clitoris, whereas others prefer the sides to be caressed. From there you should caress slowly and without stopping. The woman also has some control here too, if she has been doing her Kegel exercises, she can alternate sustained contractions with short, quicker ones to increase her pleasure. At this point you can start to add some internal stimulation using your fingers or a sex toy.
The vagina should start to do two things: it should engorge and start contracting. If you have ever wondered whether a woman is faking or not, these two signs suggest that it is definitely real. At this point you will switch to stimulating her internally (Usually via the G-spot).
The key here is to mix these two kinds of stimulation to keep her constantly going from one kind of orgasm to another. As the woman becomes more excited you will find that the time between orgasms gets smaller and smaller. Keep increasing the intensity and soon they will happen on top of each other and the woman will have a prolonged orgasm. The good news is that once she experiences this, it will become progressively easier for her to experience it again… and again!
