3 Simple Techniques to Reduce a Girl’s Orgasm Time – Techniques For Making Her Come Quickly

Sometimes the differences in orgasm times between women can be huge. Some women seem capable of having multiple orgasms in minutes or less, others need lots of slow, erotic foreplay. The differences between how long she takes to orgasm come down to 2 basic things:

1. What kind of orgasm it is.
2. How susceptible she is to that kind of orgasm.

These are the two basic variables that you need to learn in order to give her an orgasm. However these variables account for a lot of difference between women. If you want to give her an intercourse orgasm, for example, foreplay and your stamina are the two most important things. If, on the other hand, you are trying to give her a squirting orgasm it is better to use your fingers.

If you want to spend less time on foreplay, then you have to increase the amount of time it takes. Sounds like a contradiction, right? Let me explain…

Technique One: Increasing the Length of Foreplay: The Fun Way

The key to reducing the amount of foreplay time is to start giving her foreplay long before you are alone together. Anywhere and anyplace offer opportunities for hidden touches or caresses, turning the whole day into your own secretive foreplay session. Spend a little time before any event planning thinking of ways to make your time together sexually and emotionally exciting:

Give her a gentle hug when you meet her, followed by a grope as soon as you are out of sight for more than a second.
Play footsie or use the tablecloth to disguise what your hands are doing
If she is wearing a long coat, your hands can do almost anything without it being visible. Take advantage of this!

By the time you get home, both of you should be so excited that orgasms should follow pretty quickly.

Variety is the Key to Your (Sex) Life

Men who can consistently make their women orgasm quickly know one thing: variety is the key to life and to your sex life! In foreplay you should always try to keep things as varied and exciting as you can early on, only making things more predictable as she is about to orgasm. At the beginning, treat her whole body as a giant erogenous zone changing the speed, pressure and rhythm to keep her on edge, awaiting your next move.

Reduce Foreplay Time With Technique

Finally, their partner’s technique is the most important variable in how long it takes women to orgasm. Mastering oral sex, touching and her erogenous zones can guarantee that you can give any woman an orgasm in less than 15 minutes.

Once you have these three techniques down you should find that your foreplay becomes less and she orgasms a lot more. Your goal should be always working on reducing the time it takes her to orgasm, until it becomes easy to give her multiple orgasms every time in less than 30 minutes.

Positions: Sutra Sex Techniques for Orgasms

Recently we have been working in connection with the 2 Girls Teach Sex website to bring you our complete guide to sex positions with our guide to Kama-Sutra positions used for rear-entry. All of these positions are good because they target the G-spot and deliver explosive orgasms.

Doggy-Style Variation

This is the first variation of the doggy-style positions. Sutra positions like this one are designed to give the man a dominant feeling. It is also really good for the guy as he has access to all of her erogenous zones from this position. Because of the angle however it can be a little tricky for the guy to find the right way to thrust, so there will have to be a bit of experimenting to find the best position for both of you.

Advanced Doggy Style

Are you bored of the doggy-style? Then try varying the position, Sutra positions like this change the angle slightly, so that it is better for her. By rolling up into a ball, she changes the angle of penetration massively, making it better for her. It can be a little difficult for the man at first as he has to brace himself with his knees and arms and use his whole body to thrust. Once you get used to it though, you will be amazed at how much control it gives you over speed and depth.

Legs-open Rear-Entry Position: The Coachman

This position is aka the coachman (Victorian thrills ahoy!). It is a favorite with women who like deep-penetration as her open legs allow you to really thrust deeply into her. This is slightly modified from the original Kama-Sutra position by using the bed to orientate her hips at the right angle. You can also use your hands to hold onto her hips or to gently push her ankles open or closed.

Positions: Sutra Rear-entry Sex Techniques

All these positions show the importance of changing the orientation of her hips. Simply by lifting or lowering her hips, you can create numerous techniques out of any position. Also don’t be afraid to use props to get these angles right. Chairs, tables and pillows can all be used to change the way that you enter her.

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Girl on Top Positions for Better Orgasm

Girl-on-Top, Positions for Great Sex

We have been looking for the right models to demonstrate some of the many girl-on-top positions and we finally found the perfects ones: the women from the 2 Girls Teach Sex website. For those who don’t know, this site offers guys the chance to learn foreplay and orgasm techniques from some of the most famous porn stars in the world.

Girl-on-top positions are great for her and for you. She has lots of stimulation and can control the speed and pace, you get to relax a little and enjoy the view! It is also a great position for her to tease you. A lot of guys find that their partner can run out of energy quite quickly in some positions, so you can help her by using your arms and hips to take some of the weight and make it easier for her.

Girl-on-top position 1

This is a favorite position for most girls. In this move, she leans back so she receives deep penetration and can support herself on her arms. It also makes it easy for you to rock back and forwards to make it easier for her.

Girl-on-top Rear-Entry Sex Position

This is a variation of the popular ‘cowgirl’ sex positions. This is a great one for G-spot stimulation or anal sex. It also has the added bonus that you can reach around to touch her clitoris or breasts. This position can be quite tiring for her, so you can make it easier by ‘bouncing’ (Be careful here!) her up and down.

The Reverse Cow Girl

This position is similar to the previous position. The only difference is that she leans forward, so the penetration feels different. In this position she can support her weight on her hands, so the movement changes from the ‘bouncing’ movement described earlier to a smoother motion with her pushing forwards and backwards using her hands and legs for support.

Girl-on-top Leaning Back Positions

In this variation of the cowgirl, she opens her legs wide so that she can get deep penetration and hold her weight on her arms and legs. Because you are both in a strong position, you can use this is have some really energetic girl-on-top sex. There are lots of ways to vary this position by opening and closing legs or having your legs on top of hers.

Girl on Top Fantasy Play

These positions are great for experimenting with some fun fantasies. It gives her control and this can form the basis of many dominant women fantasies. You can also have fun reversing the expectations of fantasy play such as you being dominant and making her go on top.

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Two Girls Teach Sex Women Demonstrate Missionary Positions

Missionary Positions: Variants for a Better Sex Life

For some reason the missionary position seems to have gained a bad reputation. It is often considered one of the ‘beginner’ sex positions and not very experimental. Of course missionary positions can be a lot of fun, if you are willing to experiment with them. Complete Orgasm Guide has hooked up with Two Girls Teach Sex to show you some fun variations for you to try out.

Raising Her Legs in the Missionary Position

The easiest way to change the stimulation is to raise her legs. You can either rest her ankles on your shoulders or clasp her knees to your sides. It also has the added benefit that you can easily move into and out of this position during sex. It is a great way to keep her guessing during face-to-face sex. Also you can only raise one leg and keep the other flat to vary things even more.

Raising the Hips

Raising the hips is an easy way to vary the stimulation for her, in the picture the two girls have used a support pillow to lift Shawna’s hips up and hook her legs around the other woman’s arms. This position is a favorite of most women, because the raised hips make it a lot easier to align your hip movements with her clitoris.

There are countless things that you can use to raise her hips. Pillows, clothes and rolled-up sheets will all help her to orgasm.

Using the bed

If you want a simple alternative to using pillows, you can have sex on the side of the bed. In this position, you can use your whole body to thrust into her, which will feel like a lot more powerful motion. You also get a full view of all her body- which is a definite bonus! On top of that you can easily open and close her legs to change the stimulation for both of you.

Cradle Sex Position

If you feel a bit more experimental you can experiment with the cradle position. Here she reaches back, supporting her weight on her hands while you enter her from the front. For even more fun, you can lift one leg or both legs which will drive her wild.

Missionary Positions

As the 2GTS girls demonstrated, the missionary position doesn’t have to be boring, in fact it can be one of the most exciting sex positions that you can do. Like most sex positions, simply changing the angle of her hips or legs will give you almost infinite variations. Once you master all the different variations of missionary positions you will soon learn that there is no such thing as a boring position!

How to Have Dominant Sex: the Right Way

How to Have Dominant Sex

Being a dominant male can actually be a big problem for a lot of men. For a start a lot of men confuse being dominant with being aggressive, mean or humiliating. While these things may be part of the role-play sex fantasy, they are separate sex acts that don’t necessarily need to be performed together. When we talk about having dominant sex, we talk about three simple things:

Acting in a manly, dominant way
Ordering
Leading

The key is to understand that acting this way is part of a sex fantasy that turns many people on. Whether you dominate her outside the bedroom or not is irrelevant. Separating the fantasy from reality is an important step in all sex acts and understanding that the way you act in a fantasy scenario has little to do with your relationship or personality. So just relax and enjoy it!

Being a Dominant Male: Manly Sex

In order to complete the fantasy you must act in a dominent way. Domination for the purpose of sex play involves more than just your actions, it involves your voice and mannerisms too. Make sure that your posture is strong and upright, and speak with a deep, loud, dominating tone. You may want to practice this beforehand if this isn’t how you usually present yourself. A cracking squeaky voice will end the fantasy immediately!

Manly Sex: Leading Her

One of the keys to this fantasy is being able to order and lead. The illusion of dominance will be lost if spend your time nervously asking for permission. That means that you need to know everything about whatever sexual technique you are going to use. This is especially true of any act that might hurt her (Anal sex, for example), as getting it wrong will ensure that the fantasy is ruined and she will have difficulty trusting you during further fantasy play. Also be willing to stop if you encounter any problems or she doesn’t like how the fantasy develops. She needs to know that she can trust you to be dominant.

From here there a many fantasy scenarios that couples introduce to make the illusion even stronger. Schoolgirls and teachers, secretaries and bosses… the possibilities are endless. Most women will appreciate the idea of illicit thrills mixed into the foreplay. Just make sure that throughout it is about pleasure for both of you. Let out your inner man tonight.

Anal Sex Orgasms: How to Make It Feel Good

Anal sex often has a bad reputation that it doesn’t entirely deserve. Feminists have slammed it for being entirely for the man’s pleasure; governments have banned it and many women refuse to do it because it hurts. The big problem is that because of this taboo, many people are experimenting with it without any guidelines.

Are Anal Sex Orgasms Possible?

There are many ways to reduce the pain during anal sex. The key realization is that if these techniques are performed correctly, it should make it good for you and her. The anus is actually very rich in nerve-endings and can be used to give both A.F.E. and G-spot orgasms . If you get anal sex right, it is possible for her to orgasm from anal stimulation alone.

Foreplay is the most important thing. For some strange reason, men know that foreplay is important for vaginal intercourse, but completely forget it during anal. Foreplay is as important for anal sex as it is for vaginal sex.

The vagina also needs to be wet before you can penetrate it. Strangely a lot of guys forget that the same applies to the anus Because the anus doesn’t naturally secrete any fluids, you will have to use lubrication to perform the same role.

Anal Sex: how to Do it Correctly

The first thing to do is to gently relax the muscles by inserting a finger first. Move slowly and make sure that she is calm and enjoying the process. In order to give her an orgasm, you will need some kind of clitoris or G-spot stimulation throughout the process. A vibrator on her clitoris or fingering her are the easiest ways to do this. Don’t rush her, just let her enjoy what is happening. It is very important to keep calibrating everything to her.

As she comes up to orgasm, slowly increase the size of things being inserted. Generally a long, thin sex toy is the best thing to start with. Make sure that it has a wide base, so that you have total control over it and it doesn’t get stuck (I wouldn’t like to explain that one to the emergency room nurses!).

Once she has gotten used to the first toy, you will want to keep increasing the sizes slowly. At this point she may very well have already had an orgasm. This is a good thing, as it will make the next orgasm a lot easier to have. It will usually take two or three toys before you can enter her without pain. Even then make sure that you have a ‘safe word’ (A word she can use to stop it at any time).

Usually the easiest position to enter her is with her on all-fours and something supporting her weight (Chairs and tables are great for this). Make sure that you use a condom and lots of lubrication as you penetrate her. What you are doing is stimulating all of her female erogenous zones through the membrane that separates the anus from the vagina.

If you did everything correctly, anal orgasms and even squirting orgasms are possible!

Problems with Anal Sex

Women who have tried anal sex and didn’t like it usually have an ex-boyfriend to blame. Unsurprisingly agonizing sex is not something that she wants to have on a regular basis! Therefore you will have to take it at her pace and let her say no if she doesn’t want to do anything. With these techniques, you should be able to have anal sex in a pain-free way that she will enjoy and allow you to once more upstage her ex!

Big Orgasms, A How to Guide: 3 Simple Techniques for Better Sex

How to Have Big Orgasms: A How to Guide for Better Sex

When you are a teen and you first start experimenting, sex can be quite overwhelming. There are all these different female erogenous zones, all of which need to be touched differently. On top of that there are lots of differences between women. After that tearful break-up with the first sex partner, all the time you spent learning how to give her an orgasm can seem worthless when it does nothing for your next partner! After a while however you start to realize something important: that the similarities between women actually outnumber the differences. The big differences are in how you perform the techniques.

How to Have Bigger Orgasms

Learning how to be a sex master is similar to this process. After a while you learn that the key to having big orgasms, lies in being able to adapt all the techniques that you know to what each woman requires. There are a few easy ways to do this:

1. Change the Strength

Women have a wide range of preferences for how they like to be touched. Despite this, the general rule is that women prefer a lighter touch then men (Most men, used to touching their own body, are far too rough!). If you start out lightly and then increase the firmness of your touch as she starts to have an orgasm, then you can easily find what range of touches she likes. Don’t be afraid of trying a harder touch, just make sure that she is still enjoying it.

2. Mixing Up the Rhythms

As a woman starts to orgasm, especially if she is having a G-spot orgasm or an ejaculation orgasm, she will need the rhythm to be consistent as possible in order for her to have an orgasm. Experimenting with changing rhythms at this point will probably get her pretty annoyed with you! Therefore trying different rhythms is best done during foreplay. Leave large periods where you do nothing or touch her at unexpected times- anything that keeps you from being predictable.

3. Differences in Speed

Most women respond best to sex that starts out slowly and then gets faster. Keeping up the pace can be tough for some guys and they often need to catch a breather before they carry on. What many guys do is experiment with ‘ sex in waves’ (Not literally, unless you want to have sex outdoor!). A ‘wave’ is simply an escalation from fast to slow, then slowing down by grinding your hips against hers. Because you keep the clitoris stimulation going, she will keep moving closer to orgasm and when you then increase the speed, she will find it easier to orgasm.

Increasing Orgasm Size

It is worth spending some time learning every kind of sex skill. Foreplay, oral sex and intercourse are all important because they teach you more and more about your partner. This means that you can get to know her body in specific and female bodies in general. Once you understand the exact rhythms, speeds and strengths that make most women orgasm, then you will be able to easily adapt them to make any partner happy.

Extreme Orgasms from Fear Play

When you’re scared some things start to happen. Your eyes grow wider, your heart begins to pump faster and your body secretes the ‘fight-or-flight’ hormone adrenaline. Now imagine that all of that energy is directed into something sexual. How would you feel? Turned-on or frightened? In-control or dangerously out-of-control? Welcome to the world of fear play.

While full-on fear play is mostly for the extreme fetishists (I definitely draw the line at any sex act called ‘fear of castration!’) a little bit of it can be good for people who want to experiment sexually. The most simple form is taking her on an activity that will give her a little bit of fear beforehand. Rock climbing at a local leisure center is a simple technique that has always been one of the best dates for good sex afterward.

For those that like a little more risk, there are even more choices. Sex outdoors or at work is an easy way to introduce a little bit of fear, with some control over the outcome, just be careful not to get caught! Similarly a horror movie is a simple way to introduce a bit of fear. Just make sure that it is not too scary and avoid any that show couples getting murdered during sex. Luckily Hollywood has recently introduced a lot of toned-down horror movies (Final Destination for example), so there are a lot to choose from.

The Most Extreme Orgasms

For those that want to go further into this fantasy it is important to understand that the key to Fear Play is that it is a domination fantasy. Fear is mostly caused by a lack of control over a situation, so when you are using fear play you have to make sure that you keep fully in control at all times. This means agreeing on safety words (A word that immediately stops whatever you are doing) and not allowing things to become dangerous. Especially in this kind of fantasy, your partner’s mental health must be considered too. Recreating traumatic memories or making her genuinely believe she is in danger need to be avoided. Make sure to discuss scenarios with her and get her agreement on what she wants to do.

Once you both understand what is about to happen, the potential is limitless. One of the most common is using a knife to cut off clothes. Obviously make sure she isn’t wearing an expensive Gucci jacket or she won’t be happy! If you want to touch her body with the blade, switch out the knife for a magician’s knife when she isn’t looking (A magician’s knife looks like a real knife, but cannot cut anyone). Kidnapping has also proved to be a common fantasy in most listings of extreme fantasies, although obviously both partners need to exercise caution as the kidnapping can look real to any bystanders!

Fear play is not something that should be done every sex session. Its impact works best when it comes at a surprising time or in a way that she doesn’t expect. The key to doing it right is to know about her and what fantasy she genuinely wants to enact and which she’d rather just imagine. Once you know exactly what is going on in her head, then you can craft fantasies that will pump her full of adrenaline and have some wild sex afterward.

Having An Erotic Orgasm: Role-play and Sex Tips

“My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom..” Was one of Jerry Hall’s famous quotes, describing the type of woman that most guys go for. However the same is also true of women: they don’t want a one-dimensional guy. A survey of the top fifty personality traits that women find attractive in a boyfriend or husband included things as diverse as loving, tough, nerdy, passionate and chivalrous. The key to having a more erotic orgasm is knowing which one to show her at any one time.

If you are not all of these traits (Let’s be honest, who is?) then role-playing gives you some great opportunities to have sex ‘as someone else.’ Often the most exciting thing you can do is whatever you don’t usually do. A business man who always wears a suit and tie should consider wearing some docker-styled clothes and being a bit tougher once or twice, to give his partner something new during sex; similarly a laid-back student should definitely try sex in a suit at least once!

Mixing and Matching Your Sex Acts

Part of the fun of sex is constantly keeping your partner guessing and being erotic. Women like it when they can never quite figure out a guy. To really keep her on her toes the whole time, you can have some fun by mixing and matching her fantasies. A good example of this is taking her out to an expensive restaurant, being a total gentleman the whole time… while you have your hand down her pants under the table.

During sex you can mix both styles really easily. By giving her a sensuous kiss during frantic sex it gives her multiple ‘ideal man’ fantasies at once. Similarly a gentle spank during a soft kiss is a good turn-on. Even anal sex (Pain-free, of course) doesn’t have to be about dominance. You can make it more sensuous with gentle kisses and caresses, the contrast should really play to every side of her fantasy.

The key is to remember that women are like guys: they want different things from their partners at different times. Where guys often go wrong is that they only offer one kind of sex to their partner, instead of considering everything that she likes to be and wants you to be. Perhaps the best advice comes from the second half of Jerry Hall’s quote, “I said I’d hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit!”

Women’s Orgasm: How to Increase It With Body Positioning

Body Position Techniques for Increasing Women’s Orgasm

Quick Quiz. What percentage of women do you think regularly orgasm from vaginal intercourse only?

A. 75%?
B. 66%?
C. 50%?
D. 33%?

Amazingly D is the correct answer: the majority of women don’t!

There are a few ways to make it more likely that your partner is one of the lucky 33%. Obviously extended foreplay including lots of oral sex/ cunnilingus makes it likely that she will orgasm during sex, but sometimes you just want to have sex without extended foreplay.

How to Give Her An Intercourse Orgasm

The key to having intercourse orgasms lies in her hips. The angle of her hips can make all the difference between an orgasm and nothing. Next time you are having doggy-style sex, use your hand to either lift her hips or pull her hips down. Both will change the feeling for her. This difference is even bigger for the missionary position. Place something under her hips to lift them and she should feel that you hit her clitoris a lot more. This is a simple way to make the sex better for her and for you.

Of course she doesn’t have to have all the fun! You can also experiment with changing your hip-position too. Instead of thrusting straight into her, occasionally use your hips in a circular motion, grinding your pelvis across her clitoris. Or try thrusting with your hips angled slightly to the side, for a slightly different feel.

The CAT (Coital Alignment Technique)

One of the best ways to give a woman an intercourse orgasm is to align your body with hers. This technique is called the Coital Alignment Technique (Oddly also known as the CAT!). Here the man has to ‘ride high’ bringing his body up to that the base of his penis is in contact with her clitoris. She should then rock upwards and you downwards. If done correctly this will give her a clitoris orgasm from the motion of your pelvis. This is particularly good for women with vagina types such as teleclitoridiennes that usually have a lot of difficulty having an orgasm from penetration alone.

Simply by changing your and her hip angles, you can open up a world of positions. This is one of the keys to having better sex, working on both the small things and the big things. Once you have every aspect under control, that is when you will be able to give her multiple orgasms and female ejaculation orgasms with ease.


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