Make Your Penis Feel Bigger, the 2 Inch Bigger Missionary Position
What is the 2 inch Bigger Missionary Position and how Can It Make Your Penis Feel Bigger?
By now most of you have probably heard that some positions can make a big difference to how large you feel inside her, a really-BIG-difference! Take a quick look at the picture above and once you get past how awesome the girls look (If you’re anything like me, that may take a while!) you will see exactly what the girl’s favorite missionary technique the ’2-inch bigger missionary style position’ looks like. Is this a surprise to you? Possibly it is a little more simple than you expected. While the lovely ladies at 2 girls Teach Sex are always ready and willing to show off some of their more advanced positions, often you don`t need complex gymnastic contortions to hit the sweet spot.
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Longer, Better, Stronger Orgasms from Deep Penetration
How does the 2-inch deeper missionary position work? The key is to look at the angle of Shawna Lenee’s hips during penetration (She is the girl on the bottom). When a woman’s hips are raised and your body is aligned correctly you will feel a lot bigger inside her as the upwards angle of the hips allows you to thrust more fully into her. The key to these advanced positions is to angle her hips so that they are almost vertical, this way you can thrust a lot deeper into her body in addition to feeling gigantic as you do so.
A little bit of playing around with these positions is required as it may be too deep for her. Other women may need a lot of foreplay before they can attempt these positions as they can be too intense at first. On the other hand for some women, these may be just what they want, leading them to some huge orgasms and them coming back for more again and again.
Missionary Position Variations
Of course these are not the only variations of the 2inch deeper positions that are out there. Once you have mastered the basic position, you can alter the angle of your thrust to change the feeling for her. Shifting your weight upwards and thrusting downwards. Repositioning your weight to the sides is another technique that many guys forget about. Most women`s vaginas are not the straight tubes that many guys imagine, instead veering off to one side or another, therefore guys should always try penetrating slightly from the side as it may be just what she really wants.
Mental sex secrets
The Elements of Great Mental Sex
Having great sex is a lot different to having good sex. While it is possible to just learn a couple of sex moves and have good sex, great sex requires a lot more. Great sex requires you to make love to her mind as well as her body. This is an element that guys commonly forget in the rustle and bustle of sex or are even too nervous (Or excited!) to use their voices correctly. So what can we learn from great seducers about having mental sex as well as physical?
Mentally Sexualizing Things
The first thing that all men need to work on is crafting sexual fantasies in her head quite early in the relationship. Just hinting about what kind of things she can expect when having sex with you will make her a lot more keen when those things happen in real life. Don’t be coy, craft fantasy scenarios early on. Right from the early stages of the sexual interaction I like to lay out some fantasies just to see if she responds favorably. I will often ask a girl if she looks sexy in her work clothes for example, making sure that by my sexual vibe she realizes that I am imagining her dressed in sexy work clothes (Obviously this doesn’t apply to every job!). It is also easy during dates to slip in sexual references to possible girl-girl things, any outfits that you find sexual and anything else that turns you on. The key here is to not be ashamed of imagining her acting sexually. Keep the vibe light-hearted and she will respond.
Talking Dirty During Sex
During sex your words are even more important. The ability to talk in a dirty, sexual way is vital during sex and progressing your relationship towards any sexual fantasies that the two of you may have. The key is to craft a fantasy that she can get into, but also gently pushes her limits. This is the key to progressing, always making her act in a more and more sexual way around you. Tell her stories about things that you would like to do with her, craft sexy fantasies that she will want to try, describe intimately what she is doing or having done to her. The key is to keep making your vibe more and more sexual, so that she can see that it is turning you on and not being ashamed of being turned on by it.
Talking Sexual
At first using your words in and out of bed to make her feel more sexual will feel a little strange, but once you have tried it a few times the increase in the way that she acts will be well worth it. Remember that women are a lot more verbal than guys and you will quickly understand the myriad possibilities.
A Female Ejaculation Guide
Female Ejaculation Guide: How to Give Women Squirting Orgasms
If you talk to couples about the topic of how to give women squirting orgasms, they will often tell you that these orgasms are really difficult. Many a female ejaculation guide spreads this mistake. While most couples have stories about trying to give their partners squirting orgasms and failing, this failure often leads to them coming to the mistaken conclusion that they can’t possibly have these kinds of orgasm whereas in reality a little bit of troubleshooting is all that is needed.
Simple Squirting Guide
A common thing that prevents women from having squirting orgasms are weak pelvic floor muscles. This is something that can relatively easily be solved by practicing Kegel exercises. These exercises can be done with only a couple of minutes of free time (I even have students that practice them on the bus to work!) and they make a huge difference! Once she has stronger pelvic floor muscles, she will experience an increase in the control over her orgasms and this control will make it a lot easier for her to ejaculate.
For men, the most important thing is to master the squirting orgasm hand motion. The hand motion consists of two parts, a slow caress, followed by a more frantic motion using your arm like a whip. It will take a little practice to perfect this motion, but you will know you are doing it right if you can hear a wet, squelching noise as you penetrate her that get louder each time you stroke her.
The MINDSET
Finally the key is to also look after your relationship dynamics. A lot of couples get obsessed by one technique, forgetting that sex is ultimately about the two of you. Even if you can’t immediately get the squirting orgasm to work, you mindset should still be that you are having fun exploring each other’s bodies. Sex should always be an enjoyable process and should never be turned into a weird test with a ‘pass’ and ‘fail’ grade given to each session based on whether she orgasms or not.
How to Give Women Squirting Orgasms
Having a squirting orgasm is about making sure that you have the basic techniques down. Each time you try these techniques you have a good probability that you will give her a squirting orgasm. By making sure that you have all of the basic techniques perfected, you can dramatically increase the chances that she has an ejaculation orgasm. Once she has her first one, each subsequent orgasm gets easier to give her and soon you will be able to give her an orgasm all the time. That is the point where you can start experimenting with advanced squirting orgasms and amaze her with sexual things that she probably never even knew were possible. There is nothing quite like a woman telling you that ‘she has never done that before’ almost every time you have sex.
Beginners Bondage 101
Bondage 101- Tips for Beginners To Make It Fun and NOT Scary for Her
Asking a woman whether she’d be into being tied up can seem more intimidating than it should be. Most women actually like bondage, they simply have some fears that guys fail to address. Some of the more common ones are:
- They worry about being tied up and not able to stop it if they don’t like it.
- They worry about the fantasy going too far and getting too extreme.
- Worries about whether it is safe or not.
Therefore any guy who wants to enjoy bondage games needs to make sure that he addresses whatever concern she has. It is always worthwhile making sure you are in control of the adult fantasy and introduce a word or action that she can do to immediately stop everything.
Starting Out with Bondage
When you are first starting out and getting her interested in the fantasy it is best just to add little elements of the fantasy to your sex life and see how she responds. A technique that I like to try out with my girls is to use their clothes to introduce them to the feeling of being tied up. Whenever you are in any variation of the missionary position, as you take off her top you can use it to pin her arms above her head, if she responds you can also wrap it around her wrists. It is especially useful to add an element of spontaneity to this as these kinds of fantasies feel very naughty for girls so she will respond a lot better if it seems crazy and unpredictable.
For beginners there are plenty of things that can be used to introduce the fantasy in a fun, non-intimidating way. The cheap sleep-shades that chemists sell for putting over your eyes when you are trying to sleep make excellent blindfolds. Similarly cheap handcuffs can be brought almost anywhere- just make sure that you remember where you leave the key!
How to Do First Time Bondage
The key to doing bondage for the first time is to make it spontaneous and fun for both of you. It has to be seen to just happen. If she responds well then you can start to introduce some of the more advanced elements such as rope play and other kinds of restraints. The best part is that bondage should feel really good for her as she can relax and let you take control, you just have to make sure that you know how to be in control…
S and M for Beginners
S and M for Beginners: Games
A lot of guys want to add an element of kinkiness to their relationship, but they worry about going too far, too soon. This is one thing that all men have to spend time mastering: how to progress girls towards doing a fantasy in a way that isn’t too threatening. We’ve already discussed the 3some fantasy, here we look at S and M for beginners.
S and M 101
S and M stands for Sadism and Masochism. It was the creation of a Frenchman called Marquis De Sade who noticed that pain and pleasure were similar sensations and believed that sexual excitement could be made all the more intense by adding in a little pain play. While it sounds a little out there for some couples, many couples add elements of it to their sex lives every time they enjoy spanking or squeezing her breasts hard.
For couples that want to go even further than this there are countless things that they can experiment with. For beginners you can progress this fantasy many different ways:
1. Slapping: Cup your hand slightly to avoid hurting her too much and you should be able to slap pretty much any part of her body. Her ass is a favorite with most guys, but women often like their breasts, thighs and even their labia slapped.
2. Devices: There are literally countless devices that couples can use during sex to add an element of S and M. Vibrating nipple clamps and Nob Hill nipple clamps are both fun and dirty. Another useful device for beginners is using the electric muscle trainers that athletes use to give her a quick zap. On muscles they give a strange sensation and they can be attached onto skin for a more intense experience. The only thing to be careful of is that these often have sticky pads, so can be really tough to get off sometimes, so be a little careful where you stick them!
3. Bondage uses: Tying ropes around breasts and other parts of her body can be used to add some bondage thrills. The usual techniques about making sure you have rules for the adult fantasy should be observed during bondage with an additional one that ropes should NEVER be tied around the neck.
S and M Games
Playing around with some of these S and M games can be an easy and non-intimating way to add these kinds of fantasies to your sex life. While these are only beginners tips (There are literally thousands of ways to increase the intensity of any S and M fantasy!) by playing around with these and enjoying the experience expect to be amazed just how much she enjoys it.
How to Have a Longer Orgasm
Have a Longer Orgasm Tips To Improve Female Orgasm and Male Ejaculation
One of the great things about sex is that there are many different ways to have the same experience. Take an orgasm for example, while you probably don`t think about it so much, in reality no two orgasms are ever the same, there are literally millions of different kinds of orgasms for both men and women. Sometimes the orgasm will feel weak and only concentrated in one area; other times it will feel as if your whole body is exploding as you ejaculate. Both the power and the amount that your whole body is involved vary a lot depending on a lot of factors:
- The length of foreplay
- Teasing
- Strength of Kegel muscles
- The amount of time between orgasms
Luckily there are ways to use these to have a more powerful orgasm.
More Powerful Orgasm Tips
Let`s have a look at each of these in turn:
1. The Length of Foreplay/ Teasing
One of the surest rules in life is that the longer you have to wait to receive a treat, the more you appreciate it. Similarly one of the best ways to ensure that the orgasm is a lot better is to practice almost bringing your partner to orgasm, then stopping. You can keep this tease going for as long as you like, building up tension before the final orgasm.
One of the keys to really making this exciting for her is to tell her what you are doing and using your voice to increase the desire for orgasm. Not only is this more erotic, but it allows her to associate control over her orgasms with you, which will bring both of you closer. When you finally give them the orgasm it will be a lot more intense and memorable.
2. Getting Stronger Kegel Muscles
All couples should be into Kegeling. As you come to orgasm, squeezing these muscles hard will add an added strength to the orgasm making it far more intense. For her this means stronger orgasms and for you it means longer orgasms and possible multiple orgasms. Either way: GET PRACTICING!!!
3. The Amount of Time between Orgasms
Ever wondered about the optimum amount of time that you should leave between orgasms to have the best orgasm? No, you probably haven`t! Luckily some boffins have been doing the research for us. To summarize their efforts, it seems that orgasm strength in men comes partly from the amount of semen that has been retained. More semen means that stronger muscler contractions are needed to ejaculate it and stronger muscular contractions equals harder orgasms. In addition the optimum time has been found: 70-80 hours. Any more and the semen is broken up, any less and there is a `less than optimum` level of semen. Therefore you will have a better orgasm if you leave 3 days between sex sessions.
Having a Longer Orgasm
By following these simple tips you can soon have longer and more intense orgasms. This will add an added level of intimacy as well as anticipation to each sex session as you attempt to make each time better than the last. In addition these techniques will give you better orgasm control which is vital for some of the more advanced sexual techniques such as some advanced cunnilingus techniques and the best orgasm positions.
Being Sexual: Dating Tips
Being Sexual Dating: Tips for Starting to Be Sexy the Right Way
“Err…. dear… could we… errr…. ummmm… possibly… if it is ok with you…. errrr…. try something different in, erm, bed tonight.” How many times have women heard this from guys? Most women in fact are fed up of the pathetic, apologetic attempts at getting her approval for something outside the missionary position.
- Naturally she doesn’t respond well to these kinds of requests! There are a number of reasons for this:
- you seem nervous
- if the sex idea has any kind of risk she will be worried that it will hurt (Guess what guys, not doing anal sex properly really hurts!)
- Even worse, that you will think that she is a ‘slut’ or one of the other myriad names guys who are afraid of women use.
However if guys only did more groundwork early on in the date and were more sexual dating, these problems would take care of themselves.
How Can Guys Be More Sexual Dating?
Usually the problem starts on the very first date. You pick her up at the station, tell her she looks good and then take her to the place where you will have the date. A strange thing happens during the conversation however, the confident guy suddenly seems to sugar coat one of the key things that makes or breaks any relationship: sex. Many guys can talk confidently about work or hobbies, but for some reason aren’t sexual. Mostly this is because they don’t know how to express their sexuality properly on dates. If you are out on a date, it is of course about sex and it is easy to forget that amongst all the ‘getting to know you’ talk.
Some people think that it is a good idea not to go too sexual on the first date (A lot of this will depend on other factors such as when you usually have sex with a woman early in the relationship or not for example). While this is partly true, guys shouldn’t be afraid of their sexuality either. Every guy should work on making jokes about sexual experimentation that are funny, but clearly get the message across. As long as it is kept as a joke, women will usually respond favorably. The key is to keep the vibe fun and sexual, eventually this will translate into a more exciting sex life as from the start she knows that you are a sexual guy.
Making a Relationship more Sexual
For the guys that already have a relationship, this needn’t mean that you need to feel left out. It is never too late to start being more sexual in your relationship. At first you will want to build the sexual tension. Sexual looks across the table, whispered fantasies and concealed strokes will all make the vibe a lot more sexual without needing to make any drastic changes to your love life.
Sexual Dating Tips and Advice
Regardless of whether you are committed or single, the key thing to understand is that no matter what is happening in your life, sex is one area where it is not only accepted, but expected that you should act as manly as possible. While it is not time to strip down to a loin cloth and hunt deer with rocks, it is time to not be ashamed of your sexuality and manliness. Therefore you should not be shy about showing her how manly and sexual you are both before and during sex. Probably she will respond well as most women respond to a man who acts like a man in both the boardroom and the bedroom.
Oral Sex Games and Cunnilingus Games
Oral Sex Games and Cunnilingus Games
Do you like to play games? Oral sex games and cunnilingus games are fun for both you and her if done right, so why not relax and enjoy our guide to some couple’s games.
In a previous installment of our sex games series we talked about some girl orgasm games where you spell out letter’s during oral sex to make her concentrate on your every motion and touch. You can also find more erotic letters to spell, I recently had a Japanese partner and got her to teach me some of the complicated Japanese letters. When I later wrote them on her body, she had a great time!!!
These are not the only games that you can play however. Contrasting games are also great for her as they feed onto many different pleasure sensors.
Contrasting Oral Sex Games
Hot and Cold: Did you know that mixing hot and cold stimulation increases the blood flow to the area? Well, guys can take advantage of this fact by mixing hot and cold stimuli on her erogenous zones. This will massively increase blood flow and make her orgasm stronger. Sexy foods like ice cream and even though they are trite, ice cubes are great for this fantasy.
Rough and Smooth: One of the best turn ons for women is this contrast. This contrast can mean whatever you want it to mean. It could mean gently licking her clitoris, mixing this with rougher strokes or it could mean your vibe (You could mix ‘rough sex‘ with gentler sex, for example).
Lady and the Temptress: Women have both sides to them and often complain that they feel that guys forget this. Just to make sure the point is driven home, women sometimes like to be seen as the sexual woman and sometimes as the posh, polite lady. These two sides to her personality make for some great sex games and oral sex games. All you have to do is keep mixing the stimulation to drive her wild. Taking her out to an expensive restaurant and then coming on to her in a real hot and sexual way will be great for her. Similarly taking time to give her a romantic, candlelit time before jumping on her afterward will give her a nice mixture of stimulation that she will love.
Cunnilingus Games
The key thing to remember is that these games can add a little spice and unpredictability to your relationship. This is always a good thing as women love relationships that give them a lot of emotions and make them feel that they are on an emotional roller coaster. Keep that sexy vibe alive and soon you will find that she gets more and more sexual just from being around you as her body responds to the excitement and unpredictability.
Sex with Your Clothes on and Outercourse Orgasms
Sex with Your Clothes on: Outercourse Orgasms
If you are anything like me, then you love the way that women dress. There is something about the clothes that a woman wears that can make even the best proportioned female body a lot hotter. So of that can be lost during sex, when in the rush to get naked and have some orgasms those hot clothes are quickly left in a pile beside the bed. It of course doesn’t have to be that way as the adventurous lover can enjoy having sex fully clothed for a different outercourse thrill.
Sex Keeping Your Clothes On
There is something especially exciting about sex with your clothes on. It has a frantic feeling, as if you just have to have sex right there and then. On top of that her clothes provide you with lots of sexy opportunities. They can be used to trap, tie or wrap her body parts. In addition they can be grabbed to move her into different sex positions in an exciting and erotic way.
Many couples also find that there is an element of role playing that the clothes can give sex. For women, the thrill of seeing you in a suit (It feeds into her dominant male fantasies) can add an erotic charge to any kind of sex. For you having sex with her in her office clothes can give a similar illicit thrill as if you are having sex in her workplace. Most guys feel that women’s clothes send strong feminine signals, so leaving clothes such as her Wonderbra, knee high socks and stockings on during sex can be a great way to make sex even hotter.
Using Clothes to Caress Her During Foreplay
For women the difference between the feeling of skin-to-skin contact and cloth-to-skin contact is vast. All good lovers know this and take advantage of it to make foreplay longer and give her time to get really turned on. Slipping off her bra strap and slowly touching the exposed flesh, before putting it back and touching her nipple through the fabric is a lot more erotic than simply tearing it off and gives her a range of feelings. While you do this, you may want to do some dry humping too as her clothes will rub against her clitoris and it is possible to give her an orgasm before you even remove any clothing.
When you finally strip her down to her underwear, you can continue to increase the excitement by having oral sex or fingering while she is still wearing her underwear, using your lips and tongue on her underwear and stroking her through the fabric. When you have built up the excitement enough, you can simply move her clothing aside and have sex with her semi-dressed.
Clothing and Role Playing Sex Fantasies
Clothing also offers you some extra thrills that being naked doesn’t, namely the role playing element. You can play dominance games by trapping her hands with her clothes or giving her a quick blindfold experience using her shawl. The good thing about these kinds of fantasies is that it doesn’t break the flow of your foreplay, you can keep the momentum going.
Clothes are great like that, not only do they make both of you look better before and during sex, but they can be used to have hotter sex and better orgasms. Next time the two of you are planning a dirty weekend, give a thought to what you will wear as it just might make all the difference.
madonna whore complex and erotic personality
How the Madonna Whore complex is the Key to Her Erotic Personality
It seems that getting the right balance of her sexual and lady-like personality can be tough for women. While some guys like their partner to act as sexual as possible in bed (The ‘whore’ of the so-called ‘Madonna whore’ complex), other guys can feel a little bit intimidated by a woman that is openly sexual secretly wondering if this makes her a ‘slut’ or one of the many other names that guys sometimes use for intimidatingly sexual women. It can seem like a never-ending balancing trick where the two are being constantly balanced without any hope of finding an equilibrium.
The good news for guys is that being the man who understands this constant juggling act is at a distinct advantage: he actually stands a chance of understanding his partner`s sexuality!
What is the Madonna Whore Complex anyway?
In psychology there is a word for this constant juggling act that all women have to perform: the Madonna-Whore complex and basically it describes the way that women can be both sexual, passionate women one moment and caring, gentle emotional supporters the next. Guys can give themselves a huge advantage by indirectly showing that they understand this dichotomy. There are a number of ways that you can easily introduce this into your relationship speak:
- You can actually tell her. Although telling her that you understand the Madonna-Whore dichotomy and that she is free to be both with you will get nothing but a confused stare, there are plenty of nice ways to show that you get it. I often tell my girls that I like how sexual they are with me and how I also love the way that they act so classy and together in even the most expensive restaurants.
- Whenever she shows you both aspects of her sexuality, you can encourage both sides. Tell her how classy and beautiful she looks in a restaurant, and don`t be afraid of her sexual side later. If she feels that both a cared for by you, then she will be more comfortable showing both to you and you get the benefits of both!
- Women can also help their guys understand by showing both sides of their personality and letting him know the benefits of both.
- Mixing the two during dates can be a good way to keep her guessing and giving her the element of surprise that she secretly enjoys. While you take her out for that expensive meal, rub her thigh under the table or tell her how turned on you are by the way she is dressed. This can be especially effective if you then have sex in the hotel! On the other hand you can reverse things and enjoy some wild crazy sex and orgasms, followed by some serious romance as it gets dark.
Advanced Skills: Mastering Her Erotic Personality
Once you have mastered the physical side of orgasms, it is time to master the mental side too. Great sex for women is about more than just the physical act, it goes a lot deeper to lifestyle change and attitude change. Once you understand that you can turn her entire life into an exciting, sensual experience for her then soon you will find that the kind of sex you used to dream about will soon become your reality.








