Masturbation Techniques
Okay guys, lets be honest, masturbating is a pretty useless activity. That was until now, as Complete-Orgasm-Guide.com presents its guide to usefully masturbating and how a little bit of solo play can guarantee you the best orgasms that you have ever had the next time you have sex.
Learning About Sex Through Masturbation
Usually pornography teaches you only a little about sex. Mostly it can teach us where certain erogenous zones are and that is it. In fact if you aren’t careful it can actually create more problems as some moves should definitely be limited to porn movies (I am sure that every guys knows the ones that I am talking about!).
Therefore why not turn your masturbation time into useful time? We present our top 3 techniques:
1. Education Porn?
However pornography need not be entirely empty fun. One of the great products that the internet has made possible is the creation of edu-porn that teaches you how to be better at sex while at the same time turning you on. The best of both worlds! Check out Two Girls Teach Sex for the best way to be enjoy every second of your education! 2 hot girls teaching guys how to be better lovers!
2. Practicing Orgasm Control
Masturbation is also useful for practicing getting control over your orgasms. What guys can practice is spend time when they are pleasuring themselves finding where their Point of No Return is (This is the exact point at which you ejaculate even if you don’t want to). When masturbating practice going as close to this point as you can then relaxing before you orgasm. Doing this a few times before you orgasm will help you to practice trigger control and gain more control over when you orgasm, essential skills for any wannabe sex master.
3. Making Your Orgasms Better
Ever wondered what the optimal amount of time to leave between orgasms is to get the optimum amount of semen? The question has thankfully been researched by fertility doctors and the answer is: 3 days. Luckily us guys can use this information, as more semen equals more muscular contractions to ejaculate it. More muscular contractions means that you have a far more intense orgasm.
You can use this to make sex better after masturbation. If you must masturbate make sure that it is no more than 72 hours before you have sex.
Master Masturbation Techniques
Using these three techniques you can make sure that your masturbation sessions make your sex life even better. Once you do this you can start working towards the sex life of your dreams even when you are single. With that kind of knowledge, you will soon be ready and willing to give her the best time that she has ever had in bed.
Trying Anal Sex
What is so Terrible About Anal Sex Anyway?
As regular visitors to my site know, I recently got back from a holiday in Amsterdam. One thing that confused me there was that even in the most famous museum in the land of sexual freedom and liberation, the anal sex section was stuck away in the corner with signs writing in a twisted font indicating how terrible it was. For couples thinking of trying anal sex, all of this hype can be a little scary. However this article in written in defense of anal sex.
Anal Sex is All About the Man’s Pleasure, Right?
Anal sex seems to have got a bad rep recently. While I’m not going to touch on the religious objections, the common image of it seems to be a horrible act performed entirely for the man’s pleasure which the woman has to ‘endure.’ However many couples are having fantastic anal sex and consider it to be pleasurable. The key difference between the couples that get really into it and those that don’t seems to be one simple belief. The couples that enjoy anal sex view anal sex view it as a sex act that is for both partner’s pleasure.
Wait a second, protest some, doesn’t anal sex really hurt?
The simple answer is that it shouldn’t provided it is done correctly. The reason it does hurt is that most people don’t know how to correctly do it.
Anal Sex Foreplay
Whereas most men wouldn’t dream of having vaginal intercourse without foreplay, many try to have anal sex without foreplay and unsurprisingly their lady finds it uncomfortable. With the exception of men who have a very thin penis, couples should always perform foreplay before having anal sex. This involves using your hands and usually a sex toy or two.
The ‘Wrong Hole’
We need only look at the words that we use to describe anal sex to see that our attitude is wrong towards it. This is something that people need to always understand that if they want to experiment with anal sex, they need to make sure that they know that anal sex should be something that is pleasurable and not unusual (Trust me most people these days have experimented with it).
While I would not recommend that anal sex should be part of everyone’s sex life, for couples that are interested it should no longer be something weird and experimental, instead it can be a part of anyone’s sex life.
Being An Alpha Male in Bed
What Does Being an Alpha Male During Sex Mean?
With the recent release of the bestselling book The Game, a rarely heard word from evolutionary biology seems to have crept its way into mainstream consciousness: being an alpha male. For those that don’t know an alpha male is the dominant male of the group, basically in human terms the super cool guy who, of course, gets all the women! While this is the definition for dating, there is also another definition: the one that is used during sex.
Alpha Male Sex
As I have commented in other posts, such as the one about fantasies, a lot of men seem to be very timid about showing their sexual side to others. In extremes it can be very confusing for the women they date as they discover that they have a confident dominant man outside the bedroom and a pathetic weakling under the sheets. Guess what? It’s not any kind of turn-on for her!
The Alpha Male Attitude
Many guys confuse the sexual alpha male with being mean or rude, this too is a mistake. The alpha male is unafraid of his sexuality, sure, but the key thing is that he is dominant at all times. He doesn’t need to be rude, because he is being dominant.
To become a sexual alpha male you have to practice being honest about your sexuality. Practice talking normally about sex and, if it is a little weird for her, you can use humor to test her willingness. Once you start to talk normally about sex, you`ll be surprised how readily she responds. Most women love to talk about the relationship and, as sex is a big part of that, feel no worries about discussing it.
The other key thing is that an alpha male is a leader. An appropriate metaphor is going through a rough area with you, it is a little scary for a woman, but because she is with a person she trusts to protect her, she doesn`t worry so much (Very few women would go through there by themselves however!). Similarly sex with you can be a similar thing, she may feel nervous, but because you are confident and leading the way, then she knows that she can relax and enjoy it. When feel like doing something, as long as it is for her pleasure it is best to lead the way. However make sure that it is for her pleasure first. Even anal sex can be really pleasant for a girl if done right. I always receive gasps of amazement from guys when I explain that if you have the right sexual frames, you can pretty much do any sex act and she will love it.
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Become an Alpha Male Ebook Review
Become an Alpha Male Ebook Review. Time to Get The Girls You Want
One of the keys to having a satisfactory sex life is the ability to be able to communicate that you are all-man to the women that you meet. One of the best ways to do this is to become an alpha male. The alpha male is always the leader of the pack, getting the first pick on any woman that he wants. On top of that he is dominant and women follow him into lots of sexual experiments that they wouldn’t do with other guys. With his book, the ‘Become an Alpha Male ebook’ John Alexander has finally cracked the code that lets average guys ‘have 20 or more women a month.’
Alpha Male Seduction
There are three reasons why using the techniques from becoming an alpha male are so useful for guys:
- 1. More Sex
- 2. More choice of sex partners
- 3. Your girl is more happy to experiment sexually with you (After all she is attracted to your dominance and manliness, so, of course she will expect you to lead her into exciting sexual adventures).
These three factors are what you are aiming for and this ebook is great for learning them. The only one that needs more information is the ‘choice of sex partners’ area. If you want a guide to ‘pick-up’ then you probably want to go elsewhere, if you want a guide to improving your body language and dominance, then this is the best resource you will find.
Click here to learn more about becoming an Alpha Male
Tips from the Become an Alpha Male Ebook
John Alexander breaks down his formula for success with women with the idea that guys need to work on projecting dominant body language. Whenever we think of guys who are dominant and get a lot of women, we always think of guys with an upright posture, slow walk and unafraid way of looking at the world. On top of that all guys should learn to use their voice to project a powerful sounding voice, as she will respect the authority behind it.
In this ebook Alexander goes even deeper and looks at all the behaviors that tell a woman that you are nervous or inexperienced (Trust me, you will be amazed how easy it is to ruin an otherwise beautiful seduction with one mistake). Once you know these simple behaviors, it becomes easy to present a dominant, manly vibe and keep that vibe consistent throughout the evening.
The main topics covered in the book are listed on his website. Click here for a link to the Become an Alpha Male Ebook.
Orgasm
Every knows that every orgasm is exactly the same, right? Well, no actually, these days most of us should know that orgasms come in many types and intensities. Rarely are two orgasms exactly the same. This guide explains the major kinds and how to get them.
Clitoris Orgasms
The first kind of orgasm that most couples experiment with is the clitoris orgasm. Despite the old jokes most guys can find the clitoris (Don`t worry if you genuinely can’t, I have included a very self-explanatory guide to finding the clitoris!). The most common problems that men have with the clitoris is that they can tend to be a little too rough or their hands can be a little too dry. Lightening your stroke and using a little lubrication ((Even spit is better than nothing, however the lubes are a lot more effective) will make it easier for her to orgasm.
G-spot Orgasms
The G-spot can be a little tougher to find. When you penetrate her with your fingers, you should feel a bone on the top side of her vagina. The G-spot is just past this bone on the upper side. As a general rule this spot feels a little rougher than the tissue around it. Stroking it may not necessarily give her an immediate response. For some women it can take a few minutes before it starts to feel really good.
Squirting Orgasm/ Female Ejaculation Orgasm
Beyond the basic orgasm is the female ejaculation orgasm. This orgasm is a lot more powerful for women as most describe it the feeling of ejaculating as being both a physical and mental release. Most women can ejaculate from both clitoral and G-spot stimulation and the two feel quite different for them. I usually find that the G-spot orgasm is better for my girls and that I can use a lot more force with the `come hither` motion that I described in my article on squirting orgasms (See the useful articles side bar for the link).
Blended Orgasms
These have many names, but in this guide we are simply calling them blended orgasms. A blended orgasm consists of an orgasm that you get from stimulating both the G-spot and the clitoris at once. As the clitoris and the G-spot are interconnected, the orgasm is much more intense this way. There are many ways to do it, but usually it is best to start with a clitoral orgasm first. As each subsequent orgasm gets easier and easier to have, you should then move on to a G-spot orgasm while giving her a clitoral orgasm (Most guys find that a sex toy or using their fingers while giving her oral sex are best for this).
Other Orgasmic Spots
The vagina is in fact full of areas that can be stimulated to give her an orgasm. As well as the G-spot, there is a deeper spot found just past the G-spot. This area is known as the ‘deep spot’ or AFE (Interesting it has also been called the second G-spot in women’s magazines. Similarly you can even give her uterine orgasms. All these areas are generally a bit trickier to stimulate than the G-spot; however because most men don`t know about them, you get extra ‘cool points’ with her for finding them. Nothing convinces a woman that you know what you are doing than when you hit a sweet spot that she didn’t even know that she had!
Orgasmic Pleasure
The good thing about finding all these spots is that it gives you a range of options and different ways to make her orgasm. Depending on a lot of factors, she may even find different spots erotic at different sessions. Once you have the hang of stimulating in a range of different ways, you can make her feel good regardless of where she wants to be touched. That knowledge of her body will give you a huge source of value and make her want you more and more.
Intercourse Techniques
Better Sex Intercourse Techniques
Having better sex is actually easy to have, so why are so few people having it? The key reason why most people are not having the sex that they dream of is because they often don`t know what to practice, they just have some vague feeling that they should practice something. Better sex involves mastering a number of different intercourse techniques: a knowledge of positions, being more sexual, experimenting sexually and knowing the different kinds of sex. Let’s look at each of these in turn:
Knowing the Different Sex Positions
I have included a link to my friends at 2 girls teach sex showing different sex positions that make sex even better for both of you for those that would like to see some of the endless possibilities there are. There is one key thing to notice about these positions and that is that I have grouped them together into categories: missionary variations, rear-entry and girl-on-top sex positions.
While there are positions that mix these kinds together generally these three categories can be simplified to the two major kinds: those that target the G-spot and those that target the clitoris. As a general rule missionary positions hit the clitoris, rear-entry positions target the G-spot and girl-on-top positions can target either depending on which angle her body is in related to yours. Once you realise that you can make sure that your foreplay and intercourse both target the same erogenous zone to make it easier for her to orgasm.
Being More Sexual AKA Being a Man!
Let’s talk about another factor, being more sexual. For many reasons, this is often one of the most difficult things for guys. Unless you come from a really unusual kind of family, most of us weren’t raised to celebrate our sexuality. Therefore as adults guys can often find that they have a problem being sexual. Trust me here, no matter how sexual you think you are I can safely say that you could probably double or triple it and not only will she not be freaked out, but she will actually respond a lot better to you. Women love guys who are confident and unafraid to be sexual. The key thing is to be sexual, not creepy. Remember hints and roving eyes are sexy, going into too much detail is boring!
Time to Experiment
A little homework for you guys! Don’t worry this is the kind of homework that you will really enjoy doing! For the next ten sex sessions, you are going to practice trying something new every time. It doesn’t have to be some crazy gymnastic sex move (Although definitely try that if you can!), instead it should be something extra like sucking her clitoris instead of licking it during cunnilingus or circling your hips during missionary style sex. Some won’t do anything for her, but some intercourse techniques will drive her wild.
Defining Better Sex Intercourse Techniques
What does ‘better sex’ actually mean? Well, the truth is that it means different things to different people. This is one of the best things about it, as by experimenting and constantly pushing the boundaries you can tailor your intercourse techniques specifically to your partner. Once you have done that the sex becomes exactly what both of you want and that is great sex.
