How to Have Best Sex
How to Have Best Sex
How important is sex to a relationship. Likely it is more important than you think. A repeated surveys in women’s magazines have found that great sex accounted for one of the most important things in a relationship for a woman. Having said that, not every sex master is irresistible to women. Some guys have amazing technique, but for some reason can never keep a girl. This is mostly because they understand the physical side of how to have best sex for women, but don’t understand the other vital part of sex mastery: the emotional part.
Great Sex= Emotions
Women love emotions (The success of tear-jerkers like Titanic and rom-coms attests to this) and while guys can often understand the value of emotions during the relationship, it is easy to forget that they are also very important in all the things you do together, especially sex. If you have ever had great sex after an argument with her, you will soon realize how important emotions can be to the sexual side as they add a huge charge to the lovemaking. However, obviously you don’t want to have an argument every time you want to have awesome sex, so what should you do?
Surprising and Unpredictable Sex
The key to giving her an emotional spike during sex comes from many different techniques. By far one of the most important is surprising her sexually. An erotic touch in a crowded restuarant, jumping on her in a lift or even a whispered promise can all give her the sudden emotional burst that will guarantee that the sex is awesome later. However you don’t always have to spend your time thinking of elaborate surprises for her. Other times you can give her an emotional burst from being predictable, warm and loving. The key is to keep her guessing, as the guy that she can’t figure out is infinitely hotter than the one she can.
Secondly, it doesn’t always have to be about positive emotions. Negative emotions can lead to great sex- if you don’t go too far and become a bully (Women get bored of these kind of guys once the emotional charge wears off). The easiest way to do this is to simply tease her sometimes in a playful way, shock her by whispering a fantasy into her ear that isn’t even possible etc… Just make sure to keep it funny and light, don’t go too extreme, surprising and unpredictable is good; creepy bad.
The Key to Really Good Sex
Learning how to have best sex is really a matter of understanding her body and her mind. These two things are more interconnected than most people think and learning how both are required for really good sex is the key to giving her the best sex ever. So work on your mystique and become the guy she can’t figure out and chances are she will spend the whole day thinking about you and jump on you in bed.
tips for the bedroom
Advanced Tips for the Bedroom. How to Make Dates Hotter
Ever had one of those terrible nights in bed where nothing seems to go right? No matter what positions you try or what advanced sex moves you perform, you get no results. Wouldn’t it be nice if there were tips for the bedroom that guaranteed that she had an orgasm? In fact there are many techniques that guys can use that make it far more likely she will have an orgasm and the best thing is that most of them start way before you get to the bedroom…
How to Have Great Sex
The secret to great sex is to realize that all the time that you spend together has the potential to be erotic and exciting. The problem is that couples are often shy or afraid of expressing themselves sexually in public. In some countries it may even be illegal! However, you can actually take advantage sex’s taboo nature and make your dates far hotter.
The key is to be exciting and sexy, but not drool over her. Her reputation is probably more important to her than yours is to you, so make sure that you give her this exciting sex on her terms. A hand slipped subtly under her handbag on the train is far more sexy than a overt grope in front of disapproving people. Therefore take advantage of anything that can conceal what your hands are doing. Loose coats in the winter, a mini-skirt or anything that temporarily conceals you from other people’s line of sight are all great ways to give her a sexy experience when she least expects it.
Using these Bedroom Tips to Make Her More Orgasmic
Of course this shouldn’t be a one-way street, encouraging her to be more sexual can be one of the best ways to get her to loosen up in bed (And, as you know being loose in bed is what makes a woman orgasm). Even something as simple as putting her hand on some semi-sexual area can send the sexual tension into overdrive.
One of the best tips for the bedroom that I ever got was to make women feel that their sexual advances are a serious turn-on for you. There is nothing better for women than knowing that you approve of their desires and nothing worse for a woman’s ego than a ‘what do you think you are doing?’ whenever she makes a sexual advance. Trust me, being that guy who makes her feel free to be herself physically and sexually will make you a serious turn-on for her and drive her crazy in bed.
Making Sex Great for Both of You
The key thing to understand is that your girlfriend is an amazingly sexual person and she wants you to celebrate that side of her the whole time you are together. By making every moment with you erotic and exciting you make it far easier for her to unleash her hidden sexuality. Once you can make her want to be more sexual and know that her sexuality makes you want her more, the two of you will soon have the amazing sex you dream about.
How To Please Your Man With These Sex Tips for Her
How To Please Your Man With These Sex Tips for Her
When learning how to please your man, you will quickly learn how he likes to be touched. The most common complaint of men about their women is that the woman is too gentle in bed. While the clitoris can be sensitive to gentle touches and caresses, the penis is only sensitive to these sort of touches at the start of sex. Once he has got going, gentle strokes and caresses cease to register on his brain. Therefore it is best to slowly build him up to orgasm, but once he is really excited, make sure that you keep the same intensity. The best thing is that once you start to fully understand his body you can start to have a little bit of fun with him, teasing him and making him last longer by using these gentle strokes right when he is about to orgasm!
Mutual Masturbation Orgasm Tips for Women
If you have ever tried to make a man orgasm by mutual masturbation, you will know that men never seem to orgasm, yet the second they take over they have orgasmed within a minute or less. What is going on? Let`s be honest here, most men masturbate (I very much doubt that this revelation shocked any woman reading this at all!) and unsurprisingly most men have tougher grips than women. Therefore women need to increase their grip and learn to stroke the right part of the shaft. As a general rule any part is fine, but if you stroke too far down then you risk trapping the blood vessels at the bottom which will make it feel uncomfortable for him. If you have any doubt, gently guide his hand down on top of your and let him strengthen your grip and speed. Most of the time you will be surprised at how much stronger it is than you expected.
How to Please Your Man Tonight
One of the big problems with this generation is that we are used to seeing images in porn and in sex education classes and often have an unrealistic idea of what genitalia actually looks like. The books and films display the penis as a smooth shaft, that the guy has complete control over even without any input from the woman. In fact it is a bit more complicated than that. One of the first things that most women notice is that the penis has lots of tubes and veins on it. If you watch a man masturbate, you will notice that he is careful not to constrict any of these tubes. One of the big mistakes women make is this, especially blocking off the tube that runs along the bottom of the shaft. In addition the veins at the base of the penis shouldn’t be interfered with either as they can cause him to feel uncomfortable (Although often he won`t know why he feels uncomfortable).
How to Make Her Squirt
How to Make Her Squirt
Many guys can get frustrated when trying to give female ejaculation orgasms (Also known as squirting orgasms) to their girlfriend. For some reason, even though their technique is often good enough, their girlfriend will not be able to have an orgasm. While this can be frustrating to guys, it is important not to worry too much about it, as complaining or accusing will only make things worse. Instead at this point you should try and see things from her perspective, as this is the key to unlocking the squirting orgasm.
The Squirting Orgasm and Her
There are basically five key things that your girlfriend must know if she is going to have a squirting orgasm:
1. Normal Women Can Ejaculate too. Think of the way that most women learn that squirting orgasms are possible. Probably through TV dramas or in adult movies. It is almost certain that the way she learned about female ejaculation was not positive! Unfortunately, because of this, it is easy for women to think that ‘normal’ women don`t have these orgasms and that they are only for pornographic movie starlets!
In fact the opposite is true!
You may not know who, but I can guarantee that someone in your immediate social circle regularly gives his girlfriend squirting orgasms. It is also not necessarily the office ‘stud’ who is giving orgasms to his partner either. If the nerdy computer guy knows his stuff, he may give his girl better orgasms than anyone else! Therefore this is an important thing for her to realize: these orgasms are being had by all kinds of people and being given by many different kinds of men.
2. It’s for everyone. While women do vary in the way they like to be touched and what techniques they prefer, but, all women have the same anatomy in the same places. Therefore she is capable of having these orgasms, she just hasn’t had one yet.
3. These orgasms are possible! Bizarrely, thanks to some weird media reports, many women don`t believe that these orgasms are even possible! This is one occasion where you should listen to the masses, as literally thousands of people just like you can testify that these are a reality.
4. Guys think less of women that can do this. One terrible belief that a lot of women have is that ejaculating is something that turns guys or a thing of shame. Therefore guys can make their sex life a lot easier by convincing their woman that not only that ejaculating is a good thing, but that it makes you think MORE of her for being so comfortable with her sexuality.
5. That the fluid being ejaculated is urine. Imagine things from her perspective for a moment and whenever she feels a trickling coming from between her legs in the past, it has usually been because she is about to urinate. Therefore it is important for guys to let women understand the process and that it is not urine that is ejaculated.
Her Squirting Orgasms and You
For these 5 reasons and many others, it is important that guys always remember that they too have an equally important role to play whenever she can’t have a certain kind of orgasm. Unfortunately us guys often play the ‘blame game’ (Blaming her or yourself) which can lead to your sex life being ruined. You should use these 5 rules as a guide to making sure that she understands that both of you have to work together to have great sex.
Ice Cube Sex and Vagina Penetration
Ice Cube Sex and Vaginal Penetration
Rubbing an ice cube slowly over a woman’s naked body has been seen in so many movies and sex guides that it may seem trite, but in fact there is a reason why ice cube sex is so well known: if it is done right, it can give her an intensely powerful orgasm.
However, here lies the problem, it has to be done right. It is easy to forget that the reason why this technique is so sexy is because the contrast between her hot skin and the cold ice makes her skin tingle and her body respond more to touch. Therefore if you want to really make it great for her it helps to get her nice and hot: during hot weather or in front of the fire is sexy; in a cool, air-conditioned room is definitely not!
Luckily certain activities also get her hot naturally and more in the mood for this kind of thing. Of course, wild, crazy sex will get her in the mood and hot enough to try. Sports too can be great fun, you get to look at her body in the best possible way and cool her down afterward with this seductive tease.
Using an Ice Cube: Vagina Stimulation Techniques
Actually stroking the ice cube directly across her vagina may be a little too intense for most women, so you will need to put a layer of cloth between her erogenous zones and the ice. Luckily most underwear is perfect for this purpose, tracing the ice across her panties and occasionally touching her skin, especially the flesh of the labia will be an awesome tease for her.
Ice Cubes in Sex
Introducing ice cubes into sex can be a fantastic thrill and a great tease for both of you. The key thing to remember is that if you aren’t cheesy and trite in the way you introduce these things, she will respond. Therefore get her hot, sweaty and in a sexual state, then just touch her lightly, building it up as she gets more turned on. Remember to touch her skin with the hand that hasn’t been holding the ice cube in between touching the ice to her flesh, as the orgasm comes from the contrast between the cold ice and your warm hands more than necessarily the ice. If you get this right, she will have a huge orgasm and you will soon discover why this particular tease has made it into all those movies and songs…
