How to Achieve Orgasms By Talking Dirty
How to Achieve Orgasms By Talking Dirty
Most guys spend a lot of energy working on what to do with their bodies during sex. While it is great if you can use your tongues, fingers and penis to give her orgasm after orgasm, it is also worth being aware that just being able to use your body effectively isn’t all there is to master in sex. It is also worth taking time to master speaking in a way that will turn her on mentally. Even bad technique can be made awesome if they guy knows just what to say. This guide explains how to achieve orgasms using dirty talk only.
As everyone quickly learns, women are generally a lot more verbal than men (No surprises there!) and as a result respond to words in a way that guys don’t. Recently I wrote an article about sex videos and the one thing that you will notice in most sex videos with famous women is that the guys having sex with them are usually pretty verbal. While I can’t guarantee that increasing your verbal skills will give you 3somes with former Miss World contestants, I can promise that you will notice the difference in your woman.
Common Dirty Talking Mistakes
A lot of guys make mistakes in this department without even thinking. In arguments it is easy to say things that come back to haunt you later. Nowhere is this more true than when talking about sex. Whenever you call her a ‘slut’ or telling her that she is terrible in bed in the heat of argument, you are creating the image in her mind that you don’t approve (Or even worse, are scared) of her sexual side and that it is something that secretly you resent. No prizes for guessing what happens the next time you suggest anything other than missionary sex with her: she refuses!
On the other hand if you constantly reward her for being sexual (Even something as little as sending her a text to say how sexy she was last night) then don’t be surprised if she suddenly starts to suggest sexual fantasies that you never dreamed she would be into.
Using Swear Words for Better Sex
On the other hand a lot of women like hearing words strong words like ‘slut’ during sex as long as they are said positively, ‘you’re so hot and sexy’ followed by any swear word will get a positive reaction providing that it fits with the rest of your attitude in bed. Where guys confuse women is that they introduce really dirty tallking during otherwise soft and gentle sex. This will confuse her as much as during rough and crazy sex you told her how beautiful her eyes were and how much you liked the moonlight! Just make sure that you keep the vibe the same and you should be fine with anything you want to do.
Of course you can lead her the wrong way on purpose to give her an emotional spike (Women love sudden bursts of emotion!). Whispering that you are going to tear off her clothes and take her in the middle of the restaurant will get a big reaction from her because of the constant between the polite environment and the sexual tension.
Using Your Words in Sex
Your words can be one of the most powerful aphrodeiacs or one of the biggest mood killers. Therefore make sure that you let her know exactly how she makes you feel when she is sensuous and sexual, always be positive about sex and having sex with her and soon you will see that she starts acting a lot more sensous with you.
