Dry Hump a Girlfriend: the Dry Hump Grind
Dry Hump your Girlfriend- How to Get the Dry Hump Grind for Non-penetrative Orgasms.
Dry humping is one of the most common forms of foreplay and is a great way to get a woman to experience a different kind of orgasm. Some people are happy just to dry hump and not have sex; others see it as a tease for sex.
What’s a dry hump?
When we define a dry hump, also known as dry humping and dry sex, we have to take into accounts all the different kinds. Usually it involves some clothing between the genitals and that is the definition I am using here. Other people use the word ‘outercourse’ and define a dry hump as a kind of Non-Penetrative Sex (NPS), so even naked people grinding their genitals together is ‘dry.’
Basically this form of foreplay does not usually involve the exchange of bodily fluids. Because of this the risk of pregnancy is almost zero (Sperm can pass through clothing, although it is unlikely). Recently there has been a trend for rubbing genitals together as part of the dry hump and obviously this carries a higher risk of pregnancy/ STD transfer.
The Dry Hump Grind
There are many different types of dry hump and they all have different techniques. Probably the best one is to the dry hump grind. For this, one person lies on top of the other and grinds their hips in a circular motion that keeps contact against the woman’s clitoris for as long as possible. Once you have the hang of this, mix the dry hump grind with pelvic thrusts to keep varying the stimulus and drive her wild! It is possible to dry hump to orgasm this way.
To add an extra thrill to this, place a pillow or a cushion underneath her hips to raise them. This will expose her clitoris more and allow you to grind harder against it. This is a great technique for all kinds of sex and foreplay too!
There is an additional small risks from this kind of dry hump grinding: you can damage your genitals on your zipper. I actually did this when I was younger and it was not funny, it looked like a horror movie down there! Therefore be careful not to dry hump grind for too long and stop if it starts to hurt.
Dry Hump Positions
As this section involves sexual touching and intercourse, it does not fit with the ‘low risk of pregnancy and STD transfer mentioned earlier and should be done with whatever protection you usually use. Of course this should not be done by anyone below the age of consent either as it counts as a ‘sex act.’
- The advanced dry hump grind. Obviously the feel of being touched through clothing is different from the feeling of being touched skin-to-skin, so this can be exploited to give the woman great sex. Start by the dry hump grind against her underwear, then move it aside and dry hump grind against her bare flesh and mix these two together. This foreplay can go on for as long as you like.
- Mix dry humping with sex. For this to work you will need for her to be wearing a skirt. As you dry hump occasionally penetrate her by lifting her skirt, after a short while pull her skirt down and dry hump her. If you keep mixing the two together, this foreplay will keep her hot for as long as you need. Careful that it is not her favorite skirt though as it will get pretty messy.
