Having An Erotic Orgasm: Role-play and Sex Tips
Having An Erotic Orgasm: Role-play and Sex Tips
“My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom..” Was one of Jerry Hall’s famous quotes, describing the type of woman that most guys go for. However the same is also true of women: they don’t want a one-dimensional guy. A survey of the top fifty personality traits that women find attractive in a boyfriend or husband included things as diverse as loving, tough, nerdy, passionate and chivalrous. The key to having a more erotic orgasm is knowing which one to show her at any one time.
If you are not all of these traits (Let’s be honest, who is?) then role-playing gives you some great opportunities to have sex ‘as someone else.’ Often the most exciting thing you can do is whatever you don’t usually do. A business man who always wears a suit and tie should consider wearing some docker-styled clothes and being a bit tougher once or twice, to give his partner something new during sex; similarly a laid-back student should definitely try sex in a suit at least once!
Mixing and Matching Your Sex Acts
Part of the fun of sex is constantly keeping your partner guessing and being erotic. Women like it when they can never quite figure out a guy. To really keep her on her toes the whole time, you can have some fun by mixing and matching her fantasies. A good example of this is taking her out to an expensive restaurant, being a total gentleman the whole time… while you have your hand down her pants under the table.
During sex you can mix both styles really easily. By giving her a sensuous kiss during frantic sex it gives her multiple ‘ideal man’ fantasies at once. Similarly a gentle spank during a soft kiss is a good turn-on. Even anal sex (Pain-free, of course) doesn’t have to be about dominance. You can make it more sensuous with gentle kisses and caresses, the contrast should really play to every side of her fantasy.
The key is to remember that women are like guys: they want different things from their partners at different times. Where guys often go wrong is that they only offer one kind of sex to their partner, instead of considering everything that she likes to be and wants you to be. Perhaps the best advice comes from the second half of Jerry Hall’s quote, “I said I’d hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit!”
