Expert Guide to Oral Sex Cunnilingus
Expert Guide to Oral Sex – Cunnilingus Techniques
One thing that I have always noticed whenever I hear men`s stories about their sexual problems is that guys worry way too much about cunnilingus techniques when giving oral sex and forget about the emotional part. They think that if they could just perform some tongue-twisting movie that they saw in an obscure porno, they could give their woman an Earth-shattering orgasm. While technique is really important, the key to this expert guide to cunnilingus techniques is to give you a guide to both the physical and psychological elements of female orgasms.
The First Step: the Labia
At first most of your focus will be on the labia instead of the clitoris as you are turning her on enough that her clitoris becomes aroused and starts to swell. This swelling is usually hard to see, so it is better to watch her response to clitoral stimulation to tell when to move onto the next stage. Using the flat of your tongue you want to lick from the bottom of the vaginal opening to the clitoris. A great cunnilingus technique is to occasionally mix in sucks on the clitoris to give her a sudden burst of excitement.
At this stage it is important to let her know that giving her oral sex turns you on. Give occasional moans of pleasure or tell her how hot and horny every inch of her body makes you.
The whole time, watch as her clitoris responds more and more to your touch. Once she is regularly responding well to your touch it is time for stage two.
Stage Two: Increase the Clitoris Pleasure
As she gets more excited the clitoris should start to expose itself from under the clitoral hood more (The hood is visible in this picture of a clitoris as a triangle of flesh just above the drawn-in box). As it does this it also becomes more sensitive, so you should start directly stimulating it.
Also at this time many women will need you to give your woman an assurance that you are getting as turned on as they are. This will make it far easier for her to have a clitoris orgasm, so now is the time to really let yourself go and get more excited and start some harder sex talk.
The Third Level: the Clitoris Getting More Sensitive
This is the final stage before orgasm in this expert guide to oral sex. At this point she will be getting closer to the orgasm. Some guys have a problem here: her clitoris gets too sensitive for cunnilingus. If this happens and she seems uncomfortable, switch your attention to the side of her clitoris or just use the tip of your tongue up and down. A great technique is too take advantage of the intense sensitivity by occasionally sucking the clitoris to really make her nerves go crazy. Soon her clitoris may retreat under the hood. This is actually a good sign, as it shows that she is nearing orgasm. In this case use your tongue and lips to stimulate it through the hood.
All that`s left is for her to enjoy an explosive orgasm. Oh and for you to become her hero!!!
