Give Oral Sex
How to Give Oral Sex to a Woman
Giving oral sex to women seems to divide guys more than any other sexual activity. There are those that really get into it, loving to receive and give oral sex. For many it is seen as the highlight of every sex session. On the other extreme are guys who don’t like the thought of touching anything below the waist. Some also associate oral sex with submission refusing to give oral sex as they believe it is a recessive act. In the middle are many different kinds of men. Some are what we call bargainers, who give oral sex hoping for a you-do-me; I-do-you exchange. Others simply view it as one of many different sexual techniques that they do from time-to-time.
While oral sex isn’t the most important thing you need to know and plenty of people have great sex lives without ever going down on a woman. For those that are into it, it is a useful technique to have as one of your sex moves as it is a great way to give a clitoris orgasm. One of the big advantages is that when you give oral sex, it doesn’t require lubrication and the feel of your tongue is softer than your fingers so gives a different kind of clitoris stimulation compared with manual stimulation or a dry hump grind. It is possible to give a G-spot orgasm from oral sex if the woman is standing up, but this is tricky to do consistently.
For most women continuous contact with the clitoris can be too intense even when the guy is only using his tongue. Therefore the best way to give oral sex is to lick the side of the clitoris. There are two basic licking techniques: either using your tongue flat or flicking just the tip of your tongue up and down. The two have very different feels as the flat of tongue can be used to touch multiple female erogenous zones (Such as the clitoris and the labia at once), the flick on the other hand mostly targets the clitoris.
On top of these tongue techniques you will want to use your lips too. Sucking or kissing her clitoris should act like a punctuation mark to your oral sex every time she gets really excited. It can be a little intense if you do it for too long, so it is best just to use it to spice up your oral sex. The key to giving great oral sex is getting the balance of the licks, kisses and sucks that work best for your partner. Think of it like a piece of music. The licks are the main parts and the licks and sucks are the sounds that really emphasize the whole piece!
By mixing all these different ways of giving good oral sex you can find the unique combination(s) that really get your women excited. Soon you will discover many different rhythms that will drive your woman crazy.
