Hot Erotic Massage Techniques
Hot Erotic Massage Techniques for Building-up to Great Sex
I remember the first time I gave an hot erotic massage to a woman. I had a woman back at my apartment and I managed to get her to take her top off. I was a lot younger at the time and this was an amazing result! She was a little shy, so she lay on her front. My hands were literally shaking as I touched her bare back and I started to massage her. I kept assuming that soon she would be so turned on that she would jump on me. After 20 minutes (I know!) of this, she calmly got up and I walked her to the train station.
At the time, I asked one of my friends (Who’s knowledge of female sexuality was mind-blowing) to tell me what I did wrong and I had barely got the first couple of lines out before he stopped me, shook his head and said in disbelief,
“What? You didn’t you lick her neck or back or anything?”
My friend changed my life at that point by making a simple point: there is a lot of difference between a pleasant back-rub and a hot erotic massage!
Erotic Massage Techniques
The key thing separating the techniques used in gentle caressing and hot erotic massage techniques are not as different as most would suspect. The most important thing is not necessarily how you do it, but the way you do it. While a well-done massage can focus on that, even a badly-done massage can focus on the erotic part and still be a success.
The first thing is to make sure that you have the right mindset you want to make sure that you are going to give her a hot, erotic massage experience and give her a teasing suggestion/ reminder of what sex with you is like. If you do it right, she already knows that you know how to give her an orgasm.
As the main point is to hint at what you can do sexually, you will want to use many of the same techniques that you would use for other kinds of sex:
- Tease her with the lightest touches, so faint that she can barely feel them.
- Stroke close to an erogenous zone and then air-touch it.
- Touch places that are rich with nerve endings like the spine, armpits, sides of the breasts and neck.
- Touch her breasts or clitoris when she least expects it or by building up to it.
- Slowly circle in on the nipple or labia making as large a circle as possible until she is going crazy in anticipation.
- Give oral sex techniques to places other than her clitoris. Lick her spine or the side of her neck. Suck the flesh on her back. Gentle biting will turn her on too.
The Not Erotic Massage Techniques Section
This section deals with basic massage techniques. If done with skill even a tame massage can easily become a hot, erotic one:
- You will want to select a good oil to massage. As the simple equation of rough hands on soft skin is a major turn-off.
- Calibrate your touch to her (Hint: it is probably a harder touch than you expect!).
- Make sure you mostly touch muscle as pushing on bone hurts!
And that is basically it. Once a woman sees these hot, erotic massage techniques you will soon be having better sex into the bargain too.
