How to Make a Woman Have an Orgasm
How to Make a Woman Have an Orgasm- The Techniques
Ever wondered what the statistics are on women having orgasms? Amazingly they are very low, according to an experiment by the renowned Dr. Dunn around 33% of women have never had an orgasm and only 10% regularly have an orgasm with their partner.
So what is going on? Guys these days are probably more in tune with their sexuality and their woman’s needs than ever before. Men’s magazines, television shows, etc. etc. In fact there is almost too much information out there to digest, so the first thing that you have to do is simplify things.
Having an Orgasm 101
There are countless ways to make a woman have an orgasm:
1. In the vagina and surrounding areas: Most of these orgasms involve either the clitoris or G-spot orgasms. Recently scientists have been suggesting that they are part of the same organ. However as they feel different it is easier to treat them separately.
The clitoris can be found above the labia (The flaps that surround the vagina). You will want to use lubrication before touching, then use a slow, smooth stroking motion.
The G-spot on the other hand is found internally and you will have to reach two fingers inside to stimulate it. The G-spot is not the only spot on the inside of the vagina and you can make a woman have an orgasm by stroking the deep spot or the AFE. It is best to start off concentrating on getting good G-spot stimulating technique first, then working on making a woman have an orgasm via other spots later.
2. Erogenous zones. Women have countless erogenous zones and the amazing thing is each woman has a favorite zone that others may not have! Generally if a woman does not like one kind of touch it is down to one of two reasons: either it does not feel good for her (In which case you should keep the amount of touch to the minimum) or an experience in her past has built an aversion to it (A guy was too rough in the past for example) in which case you can slowly increase the amount of stimulation and she should respond.
Look for zones that feel good for her and let her show you which ones she likes. Most of the time she will try to nudge you into the right place or perform a motion on herself that she wants repeated, so always pay attention to any unusual behaviors. If you want her to show you, it can be a great experience to link hands with her and let her guide you to wherever feels good. This can be a great experience if you want to experiment with outercourse.
Generally women have sensitive spines, lips, breasts/ areola, necks, inner thighs, ears (Try sucking or gentle biting on the earlobes) and abdomen (Be careful if she is worried about her weight). So touch to these areas will turn most women on. However other areas such as the wrists, shoulders, armpits and feet may be huge erotic zones for some women!
3. Verbal Orgasms. Some women can literally be talked into having an orgasm. Try a few different roles and see which ones turn her on (Some get turned on by foreign languages which can be great for bilingual guys). Y0u never know, you could give her an orgasm without even touching her!
Giving Your Woman Her First Orgasm
When it comes to giving her the first orgasm, usually the easiest way to make a woman have an orgasm is to give oral sex, with fingering a close second. Of course machines can help a lot too and a vibrator is a good for her to practice by herself or with you. Once she can have an orgasm reliably with a vibrator making your woman have an orgasm should be no problem.
