How to Orgasm Squirt During Intercourse
How to Orgasm/ Squirt During Intercourse
‘What’s the difference between love, true love and showing off? Spitting, slowing and gargling.‘
Yeah I know, it really is one of the oldest sex jokes in the world! But I was thinking that if you made the same joke about guys it would probably read ‘G-spot orgasms, squirting orgasms and a squirting orgasm during penetration.’
When it comes to learning how to orgasm, squirt techniques range from some of the easiest to the hardest to do. Squirting orgasms are unfortunately on the harder end of the scale. This is mostly because they require both of you to know exactly what you are doing. However giving up just because a technique is difficult wouldn’t be any fun, so here I present a complete how to orgasm/ squirt from penetration guide.
Female Ejaculation 101
As I wrote in my previous ‘How to: Female Ejaculation‘ guide, most women find it easier to have a squirting orgasm from their G-spot: orgasms from this region are far more intense, increasing the chance of ejaculation. Therefore the first thing that you need to do is find a position that gives her a lot of stimulation on her G-spot (Hint: rear-entry and side-on positions!) and try some slight variations to get the best stimulation for her. The angles are really important here, so it is usually best to either work this out with a toy or be prepared to have a lot of fun as you constantly change positions to find the spot that gets her going.
Once you find the right angle, you can try for a squirting orgasm. Usually it is best to give her a regular clitoris orgasm first before attempting it, as each orgasm makes the next one easier to have. When you enter her, use whatever position you know really hits her G-spot slowly stroke it with your penis. When you hit exactly the right spot use a smooth, gliding motion with your hips instead of crazed thrusting to keep your penis stroking the erogenous zone. The goal is to keep contact with her G-spot as much as possible, increasing the chance that she will ejaculate.
At this point it also really important that she is relaxed and knows what is about to happen. The sudden rush of fluid shortly before she squirts will feel like she is about to urinate and this can ruin her state: blocking her orgasm. Therefore it is usually best to make sure that you explain the process to her beforehand, so she understands that the feeling is an orgasm, not urination!
When she ejaculates, it usually won’t be as much as a fingering orgasm. The good thing is that each time she has these orgasms, they get easier to have. After a few successes they will come as second nature to her!
Other Techniques for Squirting Orgasms
If this proves tricky to get right on the first time, a lot of people try and ‘double it up’. This means using their fingers on the clitoris and their penis on the G-spot. While this increases the chance that she will squirt, it can be tricky to find the right position to comfortably bring both of you to orgasm.
All these kinds of orgasm fall distinctly into the ‘showing off’ category of sex. Of course, there is nothing wrong with that! Nothing surprises a girl more than learning a completely new thing about her body! Once you have this technique down you can literally give her orgasms that she cannot get anywhere else. How is that for a source of value!!!
