Multiple Male Orgasm
Myth-busting the Multiple Male Orgasm
One myth that has recently been well and truly busted is that men are not multi-orgasmic. One of the reasons for this belief is that men are only really ‘designed’ to deposit sperm and anything that delays that is unproductive.
In short, thank goodness that belief has gone!
We now live in more enlightened times where we can see that sex also has a role in bonding us together. Therefore male multiple orgasms make a lot more sense in that context.
As a result of this, the best way to achieve multiple orgasm is to be in as relaxed and intimate environment as possible and then get each other as excited as you can. Generally orgasms from a lot of foreplay are the easiest to control.
There is a key body part involved in achieving multiple orgasms in men and it is the testicles.
The Testicles Role in Multiple Male Orgasm
The testicles are important because by pulling them down or lifting them up, you or your partner can control your orgasm.
There are two basic ways stop your orgasm:
* The most simple is to perform as many Kegel exercises as possible and then as you are about to orgasm, concentrate all your energy on squeezing as hard as possible. If you have practiced these exercises enough, you should be able to squeeze through the orgasm and achieve multiple orgasm.
* The other one is to get your partner to pull your testicles gently down. Obviously it will be very important that you communicate at all times as it can easily cease being pleasurable and start to get very uncomfortable. This also raises the additional problem that you will need them to be in a suitable position to touch your testicles. Therefore this technique is usually best done during oral sex or mutual masturbation.
Once this first orgasm has been achieved it should continue to go on. Your partner should now occasionally stroke your penis or stimulate your prostrate to keep you going up into the world of orgasmic bliss.
Using the Perineum and Prostrate to Achieve Multiple Orgasm
For those that don’t know, the perineum is the part halfway between your scrotum and your anus. If you feel around there you should find a part that feels like a tube, that you can put pressure on. By carefully pressing here during orgasm, you should be able to delay orgasm. Honestly I recommend that this is only done occasionally as excessive, repeated use of this technique has been linked with extensive damage to this important part of the body.
Similarly the prostrate has similar risks attached to it, so make sure that she knows your safe words, so that you can stop the stimulation if it gets too painful. However the prostrate is linked with some of the most intense multiple orgasms! Because of this risk, many people use a dildo designed to stimulate the prostrate, such as the Aneros, which can also be easily removed in case of emergency.
Conclusion:Achieving Multiple Male Orgasm
The most important thing is that you and your partner remember that this is a process and that multiple orgasms are not as important as other things. However with some fun experimenting together, you can soon be having the wild, multiple orgasms that people used to think were impossible!
*There is also information on this site about female prolonged orgasm.
