Mutual Masturbation for Foreplay and Sex
I often recommend mutual masturbation techniques to couples who don’t like to receive and give oral sex. You would probably assume that most women like to receive oral sex, but there are actually many that don’t like it. I was always interested in these women as surely any techniques that gives a woman a high chance of having an orgasm would be one that they would like, right? It was only when I asked around that I discovered that many women felt that there wasn’t any intimacy in oral sex as their partner was too far away to touch and kiss. For these couples and any other couples mutual masturbation can be a useful alternative.
Mutual Masturbation How to
Mutual masturbation techniques involve both partners on their knees with their bodies close together. While the woman strokes his penis, the man will usually find it easier to go for a clitoris orgasm. A G-spot orgasm and even a female ejaculation orgasm are possible if she leans back slightly to allow you access. While this is the basic position there are plenty of alternatives, such as mutually masturbating in different positions and my favorite penetrating her with just the tip of your penis and then mixing mutual masturbation with occasional thrusting.
Mutual masturbation has a lot of advantages for giving her emotional and physical stimulation as it can easily be adapted so that the two of you look into each others eyes as you do it. Likewise it can involve a lot of erotic kissing, which is one of the things that women often complain they don’t get enough of!
Mutual Masturbation Techniques
One of the big drawbacks is that a lot of people don’t know how to touch their partners correctly and end up either touching them too lightly (Women) or too roughly (Guys). A lot of these problems are learned when we masturbate ourselves. Therefore the first thing should be to look carefully for what touch and stimulation turns her on. This is especially true for people who want to give her a female ejaculation orgasm. Women often have the opposite problem, gently stroking where they should be a bit firmer.
One great technique is to link your hands with hers. Then as you touch yourself or her, you can each guide the other towards the way that you like to be touched. It can also be a fun way to experiment in a relaxed way with any ‘watching her masturbate’ fantasies if you have them!
The other problem with mutual masturbation techniques are that both women and men need a constant rhythm to orgasm. This can cause problems as it is easy to get put off your rhythm by the other person doing a good sex move. This can also be part of the fun too as you try to put each other off.