Orgasm Fake and Real Ones
Orgasm: Fake Ones and Why Women Have Them.
Have you ever been in bed and there is something wrong. She is making all the right noises at the right time, but something seems to be missing. Something at the back of your mind is telling you that this isn’t a real orgasm. Fake orgasms can sometimes be almost as realistic as real ones. The key is making sure that your partner never feels the need to have one.
Why Women Fake Orgasm
One of the most important thing that guys need to understand is why women fake orgasm. This may sound irrelevant, but it is actually really important. I mean think about it: she actually loses out by faking orgasm as she makes it far harder for you to work out how to pleasure her. Once you realize this it becomes obvious that she is faking for your ego’s benefit. Therefore the key is to separate your ego from the process. Therefore don’t validate yourself by whether she orgasms or not, instead understand that great sex is a process. She needs to feel secure enough to honestly orgasm or not, knowing that neither outcome will make you feel like less of a man or make a difference to the way you perceive her.
How to Tell the Difference Between a Real Orgasm/ Fake Orgasm
There are countless signs that someone has orgasmed, but there are no surefire way to tell that she hasn’t. Some girls can orgasm without any of these signs being present, therefore you are far better off looking for their presence than their absence. If you see a couple of them at once, especially the physical ones, then chances are that she had a real orgasm. Fake orgasms rarely involve physical changes.
Real or Fake Orgasm?
The following signs make it highly likely that she had a real orgasm.
- Muscular contractions in the uterus which makes it feel like her body is pushing your fingers out during G-spot orgasms.
- A flush over her body, especially if it is not hot outside.
- Her words turn into noises and become unclear or brrrrookkkkeeennnnn uppppppp! This is how Billy Crystal’s character should have seen through Meg Ryan’s fake orgasm in the movie When Harry Met Sally!!!
- Legs give way so she can’t even stand
- Complete shutdown (Sometimes she won’t even be able to move!)
- Female Ejaculation happens
- Her anus rhythmically contracts and opens (This is due to the same muscle that Kegel exercises train!)
The Real Orgasm/ Fake Orgasm Culture
I was looking on the internet recently and I was amazed/horrified at the amount of websites that taught women how to fake orgasm! This has lead to people believing that fake orgasm is normal or should be accepted. My opinion is simple: if you can’t communicate about something as simple as sex, then both your sex life and relationship need some serious work. Therefore open up the gates or communication and soon both your sex life and your relationship will improve immensely.
