Review: Lick By Lick
Review of Lick-By-Lick: The Complete Cunnilingus Guide
When it comes to giving women orgasms, no technique has as much success as cunnilingus (Another word for oral sex for those who skipped Latin class). The difference is huge, up to 81% of women reach orgasm through oral sex compared to 21% from intercourse! With this in mind, I went on a quest for the best internet oral sex guide and I think I found it in Lick-By-Lick.
Notice that the figure for oral sex orgasms is not 100%. This is mostly because a lot of women can’t give themselves the psychological release necessary to have an orgasm. Any book that doesn’t have a number of chapters dedicated to this aspect of oral sex won’t get taken seriously by me. Happily the entire start of the book is about how to get her in the mood to really enjoy oral sex.
The stated purpose of this guide is to take a guy from setting the atmosphere all the way to orgasm. This means that a lot of the book covers topics such as setting the right mood and how to make her relax and make oral sex better for both of you. The information on how to get her to shave off her pubic hair were good (I don’t use the same technique, but I think it is a good one), however the pages on how to get her to shower before oral sex seemed a bit unnecessary (I’ve never had this problem). This advice should probably be in there in the interests of completeness and you never know when it might be useful!
A key mistake that guys make when giving oral sex is that they forget that there are more spots than just the clitoris. In fact there are a lot more. The perineum, G-spot and labia are just some of the spots that can be incorporated into your foreplay. This guide recognizes all of these and many others, which gets ‘bonus marks’ from me. It lists a total of 8 different erogenous zones. I’ll leave you to work out what all 8 of them are!
In the middle a significant section of the book is taken up by an explanation of what many people call blended orgasms (Combining oral sex with fingering to give her a ‘two-in-one’ orgasm). This is really useful as many guys get this technique wrong. This type of orgasm is really good for women, so definitely worth learning about. Once you have learned the basics, it is then followed up with using toys to achieve the orgasms simultaneously or at different times.
Finally there is the guide to the actual techniques. What I liked about this was that it looked at giving her an orgasm by combining the stimulation of all of the 8 different erogenous zones. This is a fun way to give her oral sex as it keeps the stimulation varied at the start, then more consistent at the end. As most people know this is one of the best ways to really help her let go in bed.
In summary if you really want to give her the best oral sex that she has ever had then this guide is a great way to do it. Try it now and soon you will have her bragging to her friends about you…
