Sex How to: Multiple Orgasms and the 11 Night Challenge
The Eleven Nights How to. Multiple Orgasms and Nightlong Sex
Female multiple orgasms is one of the easiest things to give your partner once you know how to. Multiple orgasms are like every other kind of sex, they require mastery of many different elements that all come together for explosive orgasms.
Want to master every element of sex? Then we have a challenge for you. An 11 day challenge which focuses on each of the major techniques that makes up a complete lover.
Multiple Orgasms: How to Master the Techniques
The ten nights challenge is an easy way to have fun getting to know your partner. You will experiment with both the physical and emotional sides of sex to learn a more both about your partner and about yourself. Once you have all of these techniques you should find that it becomes a lot easier to have the kind of sex you’ve always dreamed about.
The first night: Mastering Relaxation for Great Sex
At first you are going to break the habit of simply getting into bed and having sex. As soon as sex becomes any kind of routine, it immediately becomes unsatisfying for both of you. You’re going to break with expectations, by having no sex at all!
Instead you are going to do the most emotional, romantic things imaginable for your partner- without it leading to sex (You will have to explain this to her, as my partner jumped on me before I`d even got past the first stage!). This will help you appreciate the pleasure of just doing things for one another without a specific goal in mind. We`re talking flowers, bubble baths and anything else that she likes.
Your goal is simply to relax her as much as possible. Relaxation is one of the most important elements in having great sex.
The second night: Communication
Now this night you are going to spend some time talking, but instead of the usual boring conversations, you are going to have some fun! Your topic is going to be fantasies and sex…
Set aside at least an hour. You are allowed to talk about anything as long as it is related to sex. Tell each other your fantasies, describe sex scenarios to her, let her imagine herself in one of your stories, ask each other intimate questions. One key rule is that you don`t judge your partner for anything she tells you, it is a free time. Let her tell you anything. Once you know her fantasies, unleashing one at just the right moment will give her a guaranteed orgasm.
The third night: Explore
This is a tough night as you will both get naked, but still no sex! Yeah, I know! I consistently fail on this night too!
This is difficult because we have become accustomed to thinking of our bodies as focused around our erogenous zones, forgetting that there are a lot of other areas that get forgotten about. Here you are going to get into bed together and remove each others clothes as sensuously as possible. For the entire next part you are going to do anything except touch each others genitals.
The fourth night: Let`s Learn from Others.
To really tease each other to the point of bursting it is time to learn from others and letting them show you how to. Multiple orgasms are made a lot easier if you can find exactly what she fantasies about, even if she won’t tell you.
Find some movies with good sex scenes and sit down and watch them together. This may mean porn in some relationships, but if not should at least include Hollywood movies with some interesting sex scenes. As you both watch you can touch each other through your clothes and watch each other to see what turns you both on.
The Fifth Night: Let`s Get Intimate
Now is the time to ramp up the intimacy. This time it is going to be similar to the previous night, except that you will touch nothing that isn’t an erogenous zone! No penetration allowed, but anything other than that is fine. Explore each others bodies and find as many different ways as possible to pleasure each other.
The key is that you are both learning how to touch each other and mutual masturbation techniques that turn each other one. This is important for learning female ejaculation/ squirt orgasms.
Don`t orgasm yet, wait for the following night.
Nights Six to Eleven- Mastering How to Increase Orgasm
The sixth night: frantic sex.
Congratulations on finishing the first part. Mostly the first half was focused on the intimacy side. This half is mostly focused on learning sexual techniques and how to (Multiple Orgasms should be the end result) master giving the first orgasm.
As this is the first night of sex you will want to make it as slow as possible. Hopefully the first four nights will have taught you the finer arts of delaying and foreplay, so your goal will be to make the sex session last over an hour and a half. During this time she can orgasm as many times as she is capable, you are only allowed to orgasm once (Unless you have mastered the multiple male orgasm!).
The seventh night:
One of the things that separates sex master is that they have learned to make the whole day an erotic experience for their girl. The sex that they have in the bed is actually only a small part of her sexual experience.
For this part you are going to get heated outside the house. No touching inside! Only crazed touching outside. Talk dirty, caress her secretly under the table, jump on her when you are out of sight and discover ways to turn any place into your own secret, sexual world.
The eighth: Quick is bad?
After the previous nights sex, it is time to learn to master the quickie. There is one rule however: no sex in the bedroom. Instead you are going to look for anywhere else to have sex. Sofas, tables, outdoors, showers. Use your imagination to craft some amazing fantasies. Also you want to orgasm as quickly as possible. Your goal is to fit in as many orgasms as possible in one day.
The ninth night: slowly, softly
This night has to be as soft as possible and as different from the previous night as you can make it. You are going to try and completely understand her body. Any stroke should be as light as possible. At times make it so that you barely touch. Even when you enter her, you need to make your motions soft and sensitive.
The tenth night: focus
For the final night you are going to bring your focus on to each of your movements. This focus often separates non-orgasmic women from orgasmic women and help them in becoming orgasmic. Before you have sex you are going to make shapes on her body with your tongue and fingers. It can be any shape you like, just make sure that she concentrates on the movement entirely by telling her to tell you what shape you make.
Final night: Different positions
Now your final night will be about having fun with positions and trying some that she has never tried before. The only exception is that you will start with rear-entry positions and work round to front entry and/or vice-versa. What you are trying to do is to get yourself to stimulate only one area (Either clitoris or G-spot) consistently and find out what positions she likes the best. This will help a lot when you try and give her an intercourse orgasm.
Your Sexual Goal
By focusing on a different sexual goal for each day, you will quickly learn all why that technique is an important part of her pleasure. Once you know how to, multiple orgasms and other sex goals become easy to attain. First master the technique, then expand it to make new and exciting creations especially for her. Soon you will get the results that you only dreamed were possible.
